HOW FEMALE ADOLECENT CAN OVERCOME CHALLENGES WHILE GROWING UP IN A CONTEMPORARY SOCIETY.

HOW FEMALE ADOLECENT CAN OVERCOME CHALLENGES WHILE GROWING UP IN  A CONTEMPORARY SOCIETY.

Contemporary society has challenges which hitherto, didn’t   exist before now.

For a young lady, to withstand these challenges and grow up in a way that will please God and satisfy societal norms and value, there is needs for her to be guided properly.

When a young lady is not guided properly, she is left to the wings and caprices of her peer pressure and societal influence. Agencies which should strengthen society moral fibre such as FAMILY, CHURCHES and SCHOOLS. Are sometimes overwhelmed by the contemporary societal challenges.

Parents are sometimes engaged in the quest of how to make ends meet. Many times, the adolescent girls are left under the care of the teachers and the church. They in the other way round are not properly motivated because of poor remuneration.

The church which should be the hope of last resort has been infiltrated by the strange doctrines. There is therefore for an overhaul in these agencies to adequately prepare the lady’s to face the challenges of contemporary society.

This seminar is aimed towards preparing the lady’s on how to withstand some of these challenges.

Who a girl child will be depends on the way she sees herself.

Self-conception is a key to how a lady projects herself. All ladies are created specially by God for a purpose.

Every lady therefore has potentials that must be tapped. Beauty they say, Is in the eye of the beholder.

For a lady to achieve her full potentials in life there is need for her to see herself in the right perspective.

A lady should understand the reason she was created for. Materialism and other physical things should not be a determinant of a lady self-worth.

 A lady should be contented with anything she can afford reasonably. The beauty of a lady does not lie in the price of cloth she puts on, nor the make-up she wears.

A good feminine curves without an accompany good character will not bring out the beauty of a woman. The beauty of a woman is inherent in the heart. According to AUDREY HEPBURN;” The beauty of a woman is seen in her eye because that is the doorway to her heart”. The physical beauty fades away with time but inner beauty persists at all time. Lady should therefore strife towards achieving inner beauty and fulfilment .At this point, it will be important to highlight qualities that makes up the inner beauty of a lady.

I  PASSION;   This is like a wild fire that propels a lady into achieving any height in life. Passion keeps dream alive even when there are obstacles. Passion does not understand the language of poverty and lacks

Passion ignite interest .how passionate one is to a cause determines the extend of achievement. PASSIONATE PEOPLE ARE SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE. Negative aspect of passion can make one to go any length E.G co-habiting  with a man that  is not legally married to. Passion is a two edged sword that must be balanced on the altar of morality.

A young lady must acquire passion both for the things of God and her life endeavour ,

 

2 DISGUISE; Ladies of this days disguises their shortcoming and weaknesses under the layers of make ups and indecent dressing. An ideal lady who understands the facts that she is made in the image of God does not wear make-up that makes her look like clown nor dresses indecently  like other people. An ideal lady understands her personality and self worth, and dresses to please God and her conscience . Ladies of less self esteem dresses to look like models or super star while others dresses to give the impression that they are from wealthy homes

A life of disguise can lure young girls into prostitution and crime in a bid to live the life they are disguising for.

 

Instead of looking up to another person while not look up to God and get directives.

No wonder they say; you are address the way you dress.

3 CHASING SHADOW; A lady who understands what she wants in life is focused, and directs all her efforts into pursuing her dreams. She does not indulge in anything that distracts her from chasing her dreams .she is not easily distracted by little things .Chasing shadows involves leaving your dreams for irrelevant things

 

Shadow, looks bigger and more appealing than the substance of life. Chasing shadows can consume any young lady

4NOT EASILY DEFEATED; The challenges of life persist in all level of human development. A young lady should understand as long as there is life, they are bound to be challenges

Challenges in life is actually designed by God to strengthen and make us better people.

A right altitude to challenges will positioned us to the next level God has designed for us

The aim of the enemy(Satan)

Is to discourage you and weigh you down by presenting  numerous problem. You can actually turns the stone hauled at you into a building block.

A young lady does not allow herself to be treated as if she or her time are anything less than valuable .she does not accept poor treatment from a man and she will make it clear from day one.

 

 

5  SELF CONFIDENCE/COURAGE  A young lady posses I can do altitude she does  not depend on any body  for her livelihood she generate her income no matter how small it is and live by it.it takes courage to say no to evils even in the time of needs it takes self confidence to retain your virginity even when all your peers  are losing theirs for a wrong reason.it takes courage to confront and report cases of abuse and rape in order to forestall future occurrence                         

Courage keeps us going even after series of mistake.